On forgiving...

To forgive is not an easy thing , you will say. Once in a while in everybody's life ...somewhere someday someone has done wrong to you and for that you are not always ready to forgive the person. But we all try to forgive as the time moves on...and we do forgive successfully sometimes. But what if, you are the doer and the victim is on the other side. To forgive others and move on with life is lot easier than forgiving oneself. Its really hard. It takes a whole life ...to forgive oneself...because you can never forgive yourself.
So think about it and start working on this. Make a better life, leave hatred, anger, selfishness, ego. Only Love ...Yes Love heals everything in the long run...'Only Love'!!!

Have a great day friends!!!!!

In memory of...

So many a times, when life is going smoothly, we hear a sudden news that stirs our lives & feelings & make us think about Life once again....everything becomes so clear. Impermanence!
Last month during Durga Puja festival, we had shared such beautiful moments together, shared our feelings..laughter ..! Till a few days back everything was so real..but today it's not! She is no more with us.Its just shocking! She was Sandeep's ( my elder sister's son) mother in law. Its been only one & a half year since Sandeep got married. We all had gone to Namchi for the marriage, a beautiful hill station in Sikkim. Had a wonderful time there. So happy was she & her husband. They were a peace loving, hospitable & caring couple, I have ever met! In a very short period of time , she conquered our hearts.When I met her this time, she told me that she was going to have a house warming party @ the newly bought flat here in Kolkata. 
We plan something & God has some other plans...irony of life...or rather The Life, of which we don't know anything till now. So many things are just unknown to us..Why things happen? A veil that separates us from the Truth. The Truth that all the Buddhas of yesteryear tried to find out. 
Not one life is enough to find it ..have to born again & again to find the Truth or may be not...whatever we are experiencing & will experience is all that is, so called Life.
Still in the midst of all, we all will miss her & all those whom we have lost & live only in our memories! 
Let they be in peace wherever they are!

Believe....

Not all days are happy...We all come across such days when we are at our lowest.But some days are there when our souls are filled with compassion, love, forgiveness, happiness..all coming together. Each & everybody goes through such moments in life.This is the moment when we are closest to God.....God as I say, not a person..but our soul..that is supreme God. Each & every person is closest to God sometime or the other. If we think deeply & practice this, we will believe in ourselves & can find victory over anything.

We have profound energy to do some good, to think good & pray for everyone. 
Have a great day friends!!!