Its human that expectations are bound to come . Its hard not to expect. But have you ever thought why you expect? If you think deeply you will know that everything generates in your mind. If you put seeds of expectations in your mind , it will start growing & if you keep on giving water & minerals to it, it will one day grow to become a full grown tree that will be able to produce fruits & more seeds of expectations. If you leave it like this it will grow larger & larger & one day you will see that you are helpless & everything is out of control. The more you expect the more you become helpless & suffer the consequences.
So first thing you do is make your mind clear whenever you are giving something material or love to anyone , you should give without any expectation....that you will get it back. Then only you will become free of suffering & unhappiness. This way you can start practicing & one day you will see that you are at peace. You will have a pure mind, free of worries & tensions. And one more important thing is never try to remember what you have done for somebody.....just do it & forget.
Yes I try everyday & I keep trying .....& I know you all too will try it from today.
So first thing you do is make your mind clear whenever you are giving something material or love to anyone , you should give without any expectation....that you will get it back. Then only you will become free of suffering & unhappiness. This way you can start practicing & one day you will see that you are at peace. You will have a pure mind, free of worries & tensions. And one more important thing is never try to remember what you have done for somebody.....just do it & forget.
Yes I try everyday & I keep trying .....& I know you all too will try it from today.
